COMMUNITY GUIDELINES

We are first and foremost a queer party. From the founders to monitors, we are made up of queer and kinky people who are open minded, kind hearted and accepting of alternative ways of being.

Quench was founded to create space for marginalised bodies - hosting everything from community socials to play parties with custom made furniture - always safeguarded by trained monitors. Queer and POC DJs take centre stage, bringing a fusion of Afrobeats, Caribbean & Latin sounds to sing along and sweat to.

Who can come?

We welcome people who share our ethos around the queer and kink scene. Quench is first and foremost a queer/ kinky party. We welcome straight allies but ask people to question why they want access to the space. 

Quench centres people who are queer, kinky, of colour, trans, neurodivergent, disabled and of all sizes. 

Quench is an intentional space, created out of a need for more diversity and representation in the kink scene. 

    • Enter the space with an open mind and open heart. 

    • Do not assume gender identity and introduce yourself with pronouns.

    • Do not get intoxicated to the extent of being ‘unsafe’ in the space.

    • Listen to the monitors! If you are told to do something, it is for the safety of yourself and the other guests. Ignoring a monitors’ instructions is grounds for removal.

    • Any consent violations will be taken extremely seriously. We operate an ‘accuser first’ policy. 

    • We will not tolerate ANY form of harassment - racism, transphobia, homophobia, sexism, misgendering, xenophobia, albelism, fatphobia.

    • If you violate any of the rules you will be asked to leave. 

    • Consent: explicit consent must be given and obtained before all levels of play. Consent can be withdrawn at any time.

  • Explicit consent is needed before any play activity takes place Negotiate explicit play boundaries BEFORE entering the space.

    • DO NOT interrupt a scene.

    • No mess please! No scat play, watersports, blood play.

    • No race play, no CNC.

    • No cruising, you can only enter the space with people you have agreed to play with.

    • No solo wanking

    • We provide condoms and lube but we encourage you to bring your own.

    • You are welcome to bring your own sex toys including battery operated vibrators, dildos, rope, impact toys but nothing that could be used as a weapon and no toys that are mains powered.

    • Be considerate: dont take up unnecessary space with your belongings, clean up all surfaces using the provided anitbacterial wipes, bin your condoms and litter.

    • No loitering in the space, take general chat outside.

    • No shaming or judgment, we are a space for unabashed queer sex and intimacy from vanilla to kinky as f*ck.

    • Check our Instagram HERE for inspiration

    • We will check outfits! 

    • We love genderless outfits so wear what feels right for you within the rules.

    • Anyone wearing full day wear will not be allowed entry. No effort = no entry and no full nudity. No onesies, cotton boxers or casual trousers. If you can wear it in church, its not for us.

    • No police / army uniforms or accessories.

    • No racist sybolism.

    • No LED lights.

    • No cultural appropriation: regardless of any theme, please do not take from cultures you are not a part of. This includes any sort of embellishment, jewellery, hair style, clothing, accessories etc. 

    • The themes are optional - If you prefer our standard dresscode think thirst trap, kink, fetish, mesh, leather, latex, colours, textures, skin, self expression.

Quench’s COVID-19 policy can be found HERE